7 Tips for Swinging on Cam

Chuck · Joined: 08 Jan 2003

1. Take your time in choosing. If a cam site offers free chat, take advantage of it to find your ideal date! Applause

You'll find free chat on CamCrush - this is Neo & Trinity, one of the many couples online there:

2. Be clear about what you want. If you want to see a blow job or kissing or wanking or whatever, tell them. Cam swingers aren't psychic and won't mind being asked to do specific things.

3. Be polite! No "do this" or "do that" - try "it would be sexy if you could ....." - it's just a nicer way to ask. Silenced

4. Get ready beforehand. You are paying by the minute so make sure your screen is visible, your speakers are on and you have a comfortable bed or couch close by, so you can get down and dirty when you want to. Drool

5. Make sure you won't be interrupted! Sounds obvious but when you're in the middle of a session you don't want to hear the phone ringing (take it off the hook first) or your Gran shouting "coo-eee, only me" through the letterbox. Brick wall

Plan your session for late in the evening when interruptions shouldn't happen! AmateurCam from I’mLive tend to be night owls:

6. Relax! It might be strange having a swinging session by cam but just enjoy the experience for what it is. OK so you can't touch the other couple and they can't touch you but you can see each other and enjoy the shared intimate experience. smile

7. Back to communication again - if you don't like what they are doing, remember it's you paying for the swinging show, so say so. There is nothing wrong with saying "can you stop kissing and maybe try a 69 please?" - the couple on the screen loves playing with each other's bodies else they wouldn't be there. And they will be only too happy to do whatever sexy thing you and your partner would like to see! Dancing

Sabina · Joined: 28 Apr 2004

Nice tips. I was a bit nervous the first time we tried this but the couple were really nice and made us feel relaxed. Can't wait to try it again!!