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Chuck
Joined: 08 Jan 2003
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| Posted: Tue Dec 04, 2007 11:20 pm Post subject: How to Persuade Your Girlfriend to Try Swinging / How to Persuade Your Girlfriend to Try Swinging |
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Easy Does It
Swinging is a lot of fun but a lot of people are nervous about taking that first step.  That's why being able to swing on cam is so much easier than heading out to a swingers' bar! Of course, one thing might lead to another but it's far easier persuading your other half to try it online than drag her kicking and screaming to a swingers' party! 
Start Slow
It's a good idea to broach the subject gently. Give her a glass of wine (or ply her with wine) and bring up the topic of swinging. She might only know about the old-fashioned parties where you throw your car keys on the table and someone else get them (and therefore your girlfriend for the next hour) but she probably doesn't know about the world of online swinging.
Free Chat to Begin With
Find a cam site which has free chat (such as SpreadForU or Peekshows) and encourage her to take part. Let her choose the girls or couples she finds attractive.
She might be put off by a couple or intimidated by a single girl but leave it up to her. Someone friendly like Nocolle from CamCrush might put her at ease:
As might AliciaX from Peekshows:
Make sure she knows you want to swing to enhance your joint pleasure rather than replace her in some way. When she's ready to try it out, reassure her that if she doesn't like it you can log off any minute.
When she realises she has nothing to lose and a lot of fun to gain... she's bound to be game!!  |
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Sabina
Joined: 28 Apr 2004
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| Posted: Tue Dec 04, 2007 11:23 pm Post subject: / How to Persuade Your Girlfriend to Try Swinging |
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They're pretty good tips but to be honest it was my girlfriend who persuaded me! And we went to a real live swingers' bar first!! We're 2 lesbians and both are open about liking to look at (and play with!) other girls, so swinging seemed like a natural progression. It's nothing like "cheating" because we are both there are both take part. I'm lucky to be with such an adventurous gal I know!!!  And we now swing online and in real life too - for online swinging we can't get enough of CamClub or I’mLive!! |
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